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Saturday, March 6, 2010
Lead Foot Indiscretions
My wife tells me all the time that it’s useless to dwell on the past, or spend so much time thinking about the mistakes that I’ve made in my life. At the same time though, she says that she doesn’t have a lot of faith in me to make good decisions for our family, or that I can provide for us. I now the old saying is, “those who forget the past are doomed to repeat it.” So I think that’s why I spend so much time thinking about my mistakes; not because I think it’s going to change anything, but because I don’t want to make the same mistakes again. Of course, my dad’s already dead, my mom already retired, and I can’t get a truck driving job again for about a year and half because of my lead foot indiscretions in my personal vehicle. Maybe I do need to just let it go and focus on the future, since it’s not looking like I’ll have the chance to make any of these same mistakes again.
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Oh Love That Will Not Let Me Go
"Sing rejoice my heart,
rejoice my soul,
My saviour God has come to thee.
And rejoice my heart,
you've been made whole,
by a love that will not let me go.
It's a love that will not let me go."
I think it's actually something that has been brewing for a while now. I've always felt like something more was meant for me, like I had something that I was supposed to be doing. No matter where I was, or what I was doing, I always felt like I should be somewhere else, doing something else. I have always had this fear that I was wasting my time/life. I always thought that I could just rely on my intellect to get me by, that I'd always be able to figure a way out of my predicaments. Turns out I was wrong about pretty much everything. The "more" that was meant for me was just my life that comes one day at a time anyway. I've wasted so much time(and money) trying to do or be something else.
Sunday my family went to Ecclesia for the first time in a while since I wasn't working Sunday morning and we couldn't find Ecclesia Woodlands. Gideon was speaking that morning. He was talking about Jonah,
"The word of the LORD came to Jonah the son of Amittai saying,"and he said something about how the people in the Bible usually were just "some guy" before the beginning of their story. Jonah wasn't anybody, and neither was his father. This was not like saying Issac, son of Abraham or Solomon, son of David. He was just a guy that was chosen by God to take his message to Ninevah.
Jonah 1:1
During this message I could feel something stirring in me, which kind of sucked cause my wife was mad at me so I couldn't even share it with her. I began to feel a sort of tingling sensation, it's the same feeling I get when I have a momentary flash of understanding or enlightenment. Usually I lose these thoughts because I don't get them written down in time, or I don't spend the proper time required meditating on them. I still don't know exactly what this is stirring in me, but for the first time in a while, I don't feel bewildered by it. I actually am filled with Wonder and amazement that there might still be something going on within me.
While listening to this song earlier, I realized that lyric,
"And rejoice my heart,was speaking directly to me. My heart can rejoice because it has been made whole, and that God WANTS me. He will not let me go. Through all the running, and the time wasting, all the stupidity, He refuses to let my stupid self go.
you've been made whole,
by a love that will not let me go."
The catalyst for this revelation wasn't just the song, but started with something that Robbie Seay wrote about the man who wrote the song.
"His honesty in despair and true hope in God"After reading this my first thought was, "I'm pretty honest in my despair. I'm very upfront with my close friends (and pretty much anybody else much to my wife's chagrin) about how bad our financial situation is." Then as I focused on that thought I realized that that has nothing to do with the despair that I feel and I also realized that my hope in God is little more that lip service at this point.
Starting at this point, I want to be honest with who I am and what my situation is. This doesn't mean that I'm going to start crying to everybody I meet about how terrible things are for me and my family. What it does mean is that I'm going to really try to be more introspective and stop lying to myself. Most importantly, once I can admit who and where I am in life, I can start to truly trust God and really believe what I say when we pray as a family at night and I quote Jeremiah 29:11.
Thanks for reading,
David J.
P.S. Check out this song on the Robbie Seay Band's new album 'Miracle' out soon.